> There's something very ironic about how I can fap to gore and CP without > any guilt, but get down in the dumps for hours when someone criticizes > my writing or art...( ´,_ゝ`） I wouldn't say it's ironic, it appears you just have 0% empathy - only generating an emotional response to things that affect or target you personally ヽ(´ー｀)ノ If that concerns you at all, you could try imagining yourself or people you care about being put in those situations, and how you might feel about it. Then you could adopt a "if I don't want it done to me or people I care about, I won't want it done to others" philosophy, which is something that keeps a lot of people from doing terrible things to each other ヽ(´ー｀)ノ Conversely, try recognizing that most opinions from other people have no real impact on you or value over yours, so there's no reason to take random critique seriously or to heart. Of course, if it comes from someone you know and respect, there's a higher chance of there being some validity and truth to it, at which point it would be wise to take it into consideration ヽ(´ー｀)ノ Reference: 2023/04/25(Tue) 19:06:03
> > There's something very ironic about how I can fap to gore and CP without > > any guilt, but get down in the dumps for hours when someone criticizes > > my writing or art...( ´,_ゝ`） > I wouldn't say it's ironic, it appears you just have 0% empathy - only > generating an emotional response to things that affect or target you > personally ヽ(´ー｀)ノ > If that concerns you at all, you could try imagining yourself or people > you care about being put in those situations, and how you might feel > about it. Then you could adopt a "if I don't want it done to me or > people I care about, I won't want it done to others" philosophy, which > is something that keeps a lot of people from doing terrible things to > each other ヽ(´ー｀)ノ > Conversely, try recognizing that most opinions from other people have no > real impact on you or value over yours, so there's no reason to take > random critique seriously or to heart. Of course, if it comes from > someone you know and respect, there's a higher chance of there being > some validity and truth to it, at which point it would be wise to take > it into consideration ヽ(´ー｀)ノ Yeah I guess you're right. Thanks for the advice ヽ(´ー｀)ノ Reference: 2023/04/26(Wed) 01:04:42
> There's something very ironic about how I can fap to gore and CP without > any guilt, but get down in the dumps for hours when someone criticizes > my writing or art...( ´,_ゝ`） Fapping makes harm to no one. You shouldn't feel any guilt for that at all. As for being emotional towards criticism, means you care about what strangers are saying and you should reconsider your empathy. Reference: 2023/04/25(Tue) 19:06:03